Hi Booska,
That Cluster Virtual Adapter showing “Media disconnected” is normal in Hyper-V failover clustering, so you do not need to manually connect it. It’s just an internal cluster adapter, not a real network card. The actual issue is more likely that the two nodes are having trouble talking to each other over the network path used for cluster storage traffic, which is why you’re seeing SMB errors, storage paused warnings, and the first node slowing down when the second node joins. I’d check that the NIC used for cluster communication has both Client for Microsoft Networks and File and Printer Sharing enabled, and make sure that network is allowed for cluster communication in Failover Cluster Manager. If those are already correct, the next most common cause is the NIC driver or advanced NIC features, so try temporarily disabling things like Jumbo Frames, VMQ, or Large Send Offload and then rerun validation.
Harry.