The error message means that you were not able to reach the SQL Server instance you tried to reach. There can be several reasons for this:
- SQL Server is not running - check in the SQL Server Configuration Manager.
- Instance name is wrong. Again, you can use SQL Server Configuration Manager to check what the instance name is. Note that if the name is MSSQLSERVER this is a default instance, and you should not specify an instance name at all.
- The server name is wrong. It seems from your post, that you have specified an IP address. At the same time, you talk about your local server. In that case, there is little point to use an IP-address. Simply say
.\SQLEXPRESS. - If you are in fact trying to connect to an SQL Server instance on a different machine, there can be complications with firewalls, the Browser service and whether the instance accept remote connections.
It would helped if you had clarified why you think connection should succeed and what troubleshooting you have conducted on your own.